简介:
徐天平有一个独生女儿姗姗,妻子在姗姗五岁的时候就过世了。转眼间十年过去,徐天平还是不懂得如何跟女儿相处。明明很努力地想要给她最好的一切、想要更靠近她的内心世界,得到的却是“嘭”一声的甩“门”声——房门跟心门——把他拒于千里之外。
姗姗生长在单亲家庭里,妈妈在她五岁的时候就过世了。转眼间十年过去,她还是不懂得如何跟爸爸相处。常常还来不及解释,爸爸就已经开口责备;还没作好准备,爸爸就已经夺门而入。难道爸爸就不能先问问她要什么?不能先敲敲门再进来?
徐天平的小姨,姗姗妈妈的妹妹,在这两代的鸿沟之间扮演桥梁的角色。不过解铃还须系铃人,如果一方不愿聆听,另一方又不愿开口说明,那任凭她这桥梁再坚固,也是徒然。
“你为什么不听我的?”“我为什么要听你的?”两代人沟通,是不是都要如此呐喊,直到双方都声嘶力竭放弃为止?阅读许友彬最新力作《青色的围墙》,将让你有另一番收获。
Author: Khor Ewe Pin
An inspiring story between a father and his daughter. The young girl’s mother passed away when she was only 5 years old.
Time passed by very quickly and after a span of 10 years, the father is still finding difficulties in communicating with his daughter. He wants to give her the best of everything, he could but still there is a wide generation gap separating them.
Since Shan Shan comes from a single family where there is not much of language communication and expression – when facing her father, she is always lost for words and in the end frequently gets scolding from her father.
Another character in this story is the sister-in-law, sister of his deceased wife. She tries her best to reconcile the relationship between her brother-in-law and her niece, but without any success! It’s always the case of “If you do not listen to me, why should I listen to you!” so, until the aunty has almost given up hope on both of them.
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